“This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing. I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father. It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name he may give you. This I command you: love one another.” ( John 15:12-17, NAB)
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At work, try to get to know fellow workers and their interests. Ask someone that shares your interests if they want to go out to lunch. And, don’t be so quick to turn down request for lunch or a drink. When you get to know coworkers, they might become friends.
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At church, join a men’s group, prayer group or bible study. Many of the guys in my men’s group have become good friends. They are not afraid to hold me accountable and expect me to do the same.
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At home, try reaching out to old friends. Call them, send them an e-mail or text them. Time goes by so quickly that it surprises me how rarely I get to see my old friends. Check in with them, set a time to get together, watch a ball game, or meet for lunch. And, write it down on your calendar.
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In your spare time, get out of the house! Many men become couch potatoes, watching football, playing video games, surfing the web. How about joining a gym, take a class on a subject that interests you, or sign up for a men’s basketball or softball team.
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